Conflict Of Interest

 

All conflict

is the direct result

of control

.hartland.

 

Further reading Optional:


An aphorism, I believe, should never be completely explained and/or unveiled by the author.  An aphorism is a wonderful tool to help us explore our own internal world, partly due to the aphorisms own incompleteness; allowing us to question and tease forward our own thoughts, beliefs and revelations. 

However, having said this, I have decided to share some of my thoughts and inspirations behind a few of my aphorisms; just as a way of sharing.  If you so choose, you can read on. 

 

I put a call out on facebook a few years ago when I was contemplating the truth of this potential aphorism. I challenged anyone to prove my theory wrong – I needed someone to prove me wrong, because fishing around in my head for alternate perspectives is a very limited exercise.
However, all who responded with a scenario, I was able to prove wrong through the filter of this perspective: Conflict will only arise if one or both parties try to control how the other ‘should’ think and/or behave.

My aphorisms are always up for evaluation to myself. Always – obsessively in fact (and if you’ve read the ‘about’ about me, then I feel you understand).

So, I welcome any scenario where you feel this does not apply – lets explore!

 

Battered Into Potential

The hard knocks in life

can give you

your most striking features.

.hartland.

 

An aphorism, I believe, should never be completely explained and/or unveiled by the author.  An aphorism is a wonderful tool to help us explore our own internal world, partly due to the aphorisms own incompleteness; allowing us to question and tease forward our own thoughts, beliefs and revelations. 

However, having said this, I have decided to share some of my thoughts and inspirations behind a few of my aphorisms; just as a way of sharing.  If you so choose, you can read on. 

I have often felt admiration for  those people who possess great depth and perception.
Or those comedians who make me laugh beyond what my body can sustain.
Musicians and visual artists! Oh, how our souls need you.
Actors who have a multitude of expressions and lives within them.
Authors who take us to unbelievable places; teaching us empathy in the most complex of ways.

These brilliant people often incite envy from the rest of us; their gifts seem so brilliant, so rare – these people seem lucky.

But here’s the catch – generally, these people have lived a life that has taken them to hell and back; not only that, these people found a way to stand upon their personal hell and announce victory.

I am certain, we would not wish for their incredible gifts if we could comprehend the price.